On Friday I had an astonishingly bad day. I cried (twice) at school. The first time my students saw me and the second time I was talking to Riley and I have never not ever seen a more uncomfortable person in my life than when I was crying to Riley.
Sigh.
I came home and took a quick nap.
My nurse called about my PET scan. She didn't have very much concrete or positive to say about my case and made me really feel worse.
My doctor may call today. I'm trying to manage my expectations.
I drove to Salt Lake City (I called Marianne on the way and cried to her which is way more comfortable than crying to Riley). I picked up Emma and we headed to Starr Valley. There was an accident on the freeway that delayed us 2 1/2 hours.
If you're going to be delayed in traffic for 2 1/2 hours, you could do worse than Emma. Still. I was just so tired.
We finally got to Starr Valley and I was enveloped in hugs by Adam and Mark and Braeden. (QE was already asleep.). I loved having our kids there with us. Both nights they were there, they stayed up way too late talking. It is a joy to me that they love being together and I love the way they can make each other laugh.
Saturday we went to Elko to the temple open house. It was wonderful. I loved being there with everyone. Olivia hooked me up with a wheelchair which I appreciated. I can walk fine, just standing in the line was tiring.
It was neck craning to talk to Enoch sitting in the wheelchair, but I was still very happy to see that kid.
I don't so much take pictures at things like this as take pictures later from my sisters when they post them.
Olivia hasn't posted any yet, but here's one from Marianne:
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Braeden (holding QE), Ammon, Mason, Hyrum, Enoch, my dad, Marcos Me, Emma, Melanee, Clarissa, Robert, Jennifer, Ruby, Olivia, my mom, Charlotte, Lucette, Savannah, Adam and Mark Olivia, Deseret, Boston, Marianne, Azure, Omar, Cormac and Ammon |
As I texted my family, being in the celestial room with this group felt like the very best kind of foreshadowing. What a blessing that families are forever.
Mark took this picture of us (I don't know where Braeden and QE were):
We went to the stake center and visited a while, waiting for our lunch reservation. (We didn't know how long the line would be at the temple, so we went extra early.). Our parents treated us to an amazing lunch at the Star. Worth all the hype.
I loved so much spending time with QE and I was grateful Braeden had been willing to make the drive. We read stories and played. She loved her cousins (Braeden's cousins). She decided Savannah's whole purpose in life was to be with her. Azure and Charlotte braided her hair and Lucette draped her in play jewelry at my parents' house. She was in heaven.
Of course I am always quick to brag about her, but listen. She is so funny and so smart!
We went outside and she saw that there was a piece of cardboard stuck in the grill of Loki, their car. She laughed and said, "Look! Loki has a tooth!"
Saturday afternoon, I took a nap and then we visited at my parents' house then went to Marianne's for dinner. I was "in charge" of the reunion, which means I made a google doc for food assignments, but we really couldn't have done it without Marianne. As my mom said, "She has a lot of capacity." Sunday we had breakfast at Olivia's then church. Clarissa had asked Emma to be a part of a quartet singing at church because Hyrum was going to do it and he was sick. My girl can be a tenor. It was so nice to hear her sing with Marianne and Clarissa and Marcos.
I saw my cousins Margaret and Hannah and Jordan at church and my aunt Claudia and uncle Demar. It was good to see them. Bonus reunion.
Margaret and Hannah both hugged me tight and cried with me a little (also easier than crying to Riley).
Our kids all left and Adam and I remained in Starr Valley. We had lunch at Marianne's and celebrated Lucette's birthday and visited and just enjoyed each other.
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There's happiness and then there is sitting between my sisters happiness. |
Ammon's family left and Enoch's family was about to leave and my dad was about to drive Olivia and Ruby and Charlotte back to Lund, when Tabor showed up.
Another bonus.
So we all crammed into my parents' living room and visited some more.
(I told Tabor that I really love him because I had been super comfortable in a recliner at Marianne's.)
Adam and I went to our house. I called Melva, my Relief Society president, because she had texted me and asked me to call.
She said that she'd been praying to know how to help me and she had gone to the temple praying how she could help me. She said the other night she had the idea that she could volunteer in my classroom. She worked as an aide at Bonneville for 7 years and she knows the ropes. She said, "You need help, but I know they don't have the budget to hire an aide."
I said, "Melva, that is so kind, but you are busy. You don't need to do that."
She said, "Then why would Heavenly Father give me that idea, Thelma? Why?"
She talked me into it and I cried because I was just overwhelmed by her goodness.
Later Marianne and Robert and Clarissa stopped by and we visited a bit. After a while, Marianne said, "You look so tired. We should go."
She was not wrong, but I wished she was. I would have loved to stay up late talking and playing the game Clarissa brought.
Monday Adam assembled the stools we brought and we hung pictures.
Emma bought me that print in Snohomish at Joyworks. I hung it in the green room.
In the blue room we hung the paper I got in Sweden on Midsommar and framed:
I think my grandpa would be pleased to have Swedish stuff hanging there.
Adam did the bulk of the packing up and loading up and we drove back to Pleasant Grove. Before leaving Starr Valley, we stopped at my parents' house to say good-bye and visit a little. Adam and my dad gave me a priesthood blessing. I don't know why I was gifted with such parents and was blessed with such a husband.
But I don't take it for granted.
It was a wonderful weekend and now, back to school. (And back to trying to figure out my cancer: my side hustle.)